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Neighbourhood Charity Lunch

 


A neighbour in my Kampong used to provide lunch to commemorate the passing away of his parents and forefathers. They were just vegetarian meals but free to anyone who dropped by. Free lunches were rare those days and the occasion almost always drew quite a lot of people.The neighbor also hired about 5 trishaw pedlars to bring the poor and hungry from the town to the venue. Every trishaw load would earn the pedlars RM2/-, a large sum for those days. 


The eldest son of this neighbor was a misfit who was always seen in the company of beer and samsu drinkers - this chap was loud and boisterous and used to brag about the charity lunch as though it  was through his generosity. We learnt later that he hardly contributed his share to the charity lunch but would want a giant share of the publicity. After being intoxicated he would come to the dining area where the lunch was in progress and make a nuisance of himself. He would snatch the rice tray from the helpers and try to load more rice onto the banana leaf despite the protests of the customers. So much so that customers would avoid getting into the dining area if they spotted the drunk anywhere around the dining area. Some refrained from assaulting him simply because of the charitable nature of his father. 


One day the drunk was so intoxicated he started kicking the banana leaves containing food. There was only so much the poor could take - free food or not. Some of them accosted him to stop his nonsense — when the drunk refused, a few of them pounced on  him  and gave him the thrashing of his life. He was bleeding from his mouth and nose. The neighbor witnessed this and pleaded with the assailants to stop the assault on the son. After that incident, the neighbor ceased the practice of providing lunch at his home and delegated this task to volunteers at a nearby temple. 


I remember that some cursed him for ceasing the practice not realising the circumstances which led to the change in venue.


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